So, since I last wrote, or should I say vented, an AMAZING thing happened. I finally got my wish. My guy finally said I would meet his parents on the day after turkey day. WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
This is what I've wanted for so long. I have pretty much fought with my guy since the 9 or so month mark. I figure maybe he wanted to wait to see if I was a 'keeper' or something. I didn't really blame him because some people don't want random dater tyoe people meeting the family. But after that long, don't you know to a degree if I will be around a while?
He once said to me, "You'll know you're getting the ring once you meet my parents. The next day, it's guaranteed." It's not even the fact that I know this means he's thinking of marriage. I mean could I marry him, sure, maybe one day but not yet. I know this is a step towards the right direction but I feel as though we need to move in a certain direction with many aspects of our relationships before I can even consider marriage but that's a whole other blog post.
The most important factor in all this for me is that, as stupid as it sounds, I finally feel as though I know for sure he truly loves me because he's willing to take this step which I know is hard for him.
Next step comes: what to wear, what to bring, etc, etc....so nerve-wracking, yet SO exciting. I always do well with parents so I'm trying to think of it like that. If they're not the nicest to me, that's ok because I love him and he's more important to me. I will kill em with kindness :o). (Hope I won't have to!)
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